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are a few tips that will be useful to you in a dating scene.
Always carry a smile
They say "smile and it increases your face value". Basically everyone is
typically attracted to someone who makes them feel good about themselves, or who
helps them forget the tensions of life, even if it is for a small time. A smile
is an excellent icebreaker, and when given to people you'd like to talk to, it
makes an excellent approach and your work is half done.
Take time to look great
Believe it or not but looks do matter a lot in dating game. Thus if you wanna
get noticed and be the centre of attraction you must spend some time on yourself
to look your best. . Use this to your advantage and wear flattering clothes,
colours and hairstyles.
Make eye contact
Eye contact can be a very powerful unspoken communication. It can give lots of
unspoken signals that will make your goal easier. Thus if you use this tool
properly, you can create a sense of appeal, mystery and allure.
Use your sense of humour
Sense of humour is something that will make you stand out and be noticed
everywhere. Laughter makes people forget about their tensions and problems. If
you can do that, you'll not only stand out, but you'll leave a lasting
impression.
Look good and feel good
What is the most important thing that is required is self-confidence and
appearance. People very often jump to conclusions as to whether you are, or
aren't their type by how you are dressed and on your overall appearance. Thus to
succeed in your conquest you should definitely be dressed neatly and
appropriately and also walk with an air of confidence in you. Without
confidence, you are more likely to make a fool out of yourself than start a
relationship.
Starting a conversation
Once you mark your target the next step is to talk to him. One approach in
selecting a conversation starter is to look at the person minutely and find
something interesting about him, and then comment or ask him about it. When
doing this, try to find out the type of person he is. Is he an extrovert or
introvert, what does he do mostly; if alone in the room what catches his
interest, etc. When you do go and talk to him, try to be as original as possible
and choose a topic that you have some knowledge and/or interest in. If you are
asked something about which you have no knowledge at all be frank enough to tell
him that and don't make a fool of yourself by bluffing your way through. This is
where confidence also plays a huge part.
Be yourself
This is most important. Try to be yourself and don't ape anyone or be someone
who you really are not. Don't try to impress him by being something you are not,
or by showing him something you think he wants to see. Show him your true self.
The strongest and deepest bonds are built upon honesty and truth. Don't try to
fool anyone 'coz sooner or later he will find out and that will not be a good
thing.
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