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You are in love but you do not know whether she/he also loves you. Well one
way is to ask him/her but if you are the shy kind then here is a way by which
you can come to a positive or negative conclusion. Try On Body Language
 Focus If you're interested in someone, you focus and pay attention. If you're not
interested in someone, your attention wanders. So if you're sitting with the
person you like, and he/she is looking at you when you're talking, that's a
great sign. The eyes have it all and thus if the person is not interested he/she
will keep looking out the window, or watching other girls/men. Dilated eyes As they say "The eyes are the window to the soul." Thus while you are talking to
the person you like, your eye pupils dialate (get bigger) when you're excited.
So if someone's eyes look really big, it shows they're interested. Thus keep
your eyes on him/her and observe the eyes. Lip and Mouth Activities A girl might bite her lip gently, or run her tongue along her lip to show that
she is interested. Some girls even do this deliberately to flirt, although it
rarely looks natural. If you're a girl, don't try it, unless you're really sure
it looks natural. Hair Fiddling and playing with hair is one way to show that you are interested. Girls
wrap their fingers in their hair. Guys run their hands through their hair. Note
that twirling your hair is more a sign of boredom and distraction. Arms and Hands If the girl keeps her arms or hands closed or crossed (which is normal if its
cold) then that is a clear indication that she's not feeling comfortable. Arms
that are out and away from her are less 'defensive'. Also, if the woman leaves
her wrist-up, it's sort of an "I trust you" motion. Legs Women normally like to sit cross-legged and note that it doesn't mean that she
isn't interested. So forget about that and concentrate on the toes because, toes
tend to react to general body energy. So if someone's feeling bored and
listless, they might just lay there. But if someone is feeling excited and
energetic, the toe might make little circles or bounce. Women when are
interested point their toes towards the man. The Voice The way someone talks and especially the tone of the voice is hugely important.
It will instantly tell you whether: Are they bored and weary? Are they
thoughtful and quiet? Are they enthused and interested? To find out whether the
person is interested in you first watch your own speech and then watch how their
speech changes. If someone wants to 'get along' with someone else, they
naturally match their speech patterns together. If you're interested in someone,
you start to naturally speak like them, using the same tone of voice, the same
loudness/softness and speed, the same phrases even.
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